It’s Surprisingly Sexy When You've Got Your Act Together
Get your financial ducks in a row
We all remember that guy.
He’s the quiet one, the one you thought was so serious until he smiled.
And when he smiled at you, his eyes had that little crinkle on the edges and there was that tiny crease, a dimple on the right side of his mouth.
But then there was that moment when he opened the door to his apartment and the bubble popped.
You wondered how he could find anything in all that mess.
When a woman visits a single man’s house, disorder is a very big turnoff. Neatness shows stability and that’s appealing.
Many people love an organized partner, especially in the long term.
People with money are generally more organized. They have it together.
If you’re talking about a short-term fling, most people don’t care how organized the person is.
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You don’t care what their spending habits are when you’re in a passionate embrace.
How a person lives shows me how they treat themselves, and that tells me how they are going to treat me.
An organized person has their life in order. They pay attention to details.
They’re always going to show up on time and they’re more likely to remember special occasions, like your birthday, or an anniversary.
They’re not likely to forget birth control, which makes those awkward moments less awkward.
And you can relax a bit, knowing that they will take care of you a bit, and enjoy doing it.
Many people find money sexy.
A fancy car or a willingness to flash your money around might impress some dates. They might find it hot.
Others see that as wasteful and showing off.
Taking care of your money is a sign of dependability and that makes you attractive as a mate.
It’s part of how we are wired.
Natural selection attracts us to the person who is more likely to provide a secure environment. A powerful mate is able to protect the family, and being organized signals they are able to take care of the family unit.
To our animal brain, saving is sexy.
Money is a powerful symbol in our culture and how you treat your money reflects on you.
Filing your taxes on time is one sign of an organized person. Remember, organized = dependable and that’s attractive.
If you’re one of those people who leave things like taxes until the last minute, you might want to consider making a few changes.
This year, there are a lot of great reasons to file your tax return before the deadline.
If your tax return is fairly simple, you can take advantage of the many free online filing software packages that exist today.
Most of them have a step-by-step quick filing process that you can follow.
Many communities have volunteers who are willing to assist or prepare tax returns for seniors or students.
This year, many people are filing tax returns that may include pandemic assistance payments, which may or may not be taxable, depending on your country.
Paying attention to these details is attractive. Ignoring them and getting in trouble financially is not.
10 More Reasons To File Your Taxes on Time (besides the sexy one)
The sooner you file, the quicker you will receive a refund if you are eligible for one.
You won’t be rushed so you can take the time to include all of the deductions you are entitled to.
If you owe, you can pay on time, avoiding costly penalties.
If you owe and you file early, it gives you more time to make a plan to meet the deadline.
If you owe and you can’t pay, you can avoid a late filing penalty by filing on time.
Some government programs or subsidies depend on your income tax assessment. If you file on time it will help you continue to receive them on time and on a regular basis.
College students can use the assessment as proof of income to apply for financial aid.
If you are purchasing a home, the bank will use the assessment as proof of income. Filing early is one way to ensure they have the most up-to-date information when they look at your financial situation.
If you need assistance to file your return, the tax preparer won’t be as busy if you file early. They sometimes charge more as they get closer to the deadline.
It will give you peace of mind.
If you’re in it for the long term, a reliable, organized person is a sexier partner than someone who is going to blow through their money trying to attract you.
And who wants to be ‘that guy’…..
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"...how you treat your money reflects on you."
⬆️⬆️ I think this quote is inaccurate for average people in this economy. Most people don't have a choice in how they treat their money these days. There isn't any leftover to "treat" in any way!