You are spot on with the list idea! My late husband, who had been divorced once, told me at some point in our first year of marriage, that he had a list of what his next partner needed to have. At first I thought that sounded stupid. I met his entire list. We were married 22 years before health issues took him away. Even if I don't make physical lists, I am constantly making mental ones.
thanks for sharing your experience! It's so important to be clear about what you want, in every aspect of life. It's also so easy to focus on what you don't want!
You are spot on with the list idea! My late husband, who had been divorced once, told me at some point in our first year of marriage, that he had a list of what his next partner needed to have. At first I thought that sounded stupid. I met his entire list. We were married 22 years before health issues took him away. Even if I don't make physical lists, I am constantly making mental ones.
thanks for sharing your experience! It's so important to be clear about what you want, in every aspect of life. It's also so easy to focus on what you don't want!